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What do you look like?

  • born2bsub
  • Feb 21, 2021
  • 2 min read

Updated: Aug 24, 2021

I honestly don't know.


I would say I tend to prefer darker features though the last two men I seriously dated were blonde hair blue eyes. They were not Dominant.


Reality is, that doesn't matter so much I guess.


I've got long, thick, dark hair, curly/wavy depending on what I've done with it - sometimes I'll French braid it and it will be more curly. After it gets cut/thinned out it is curlier as well.


Blue or grey eyes depending on a number of factors. I wear contacts and/or glasses.


I'm fairly short, I don't have a complex. You are taller than me, though maybe not defined as "tall" by the male standards...but you don't have a complex about it either.


Does size matter? In my opinion there is such a thing as too small...but it has to be very small. The bottom line is, whatever you have means nothing if you don't know how to use it. I find that the bigger it is, the more lazy the owner has been because they think "big" is enough. I've never found that to be the case.


Physique? To be confident, you have to feel good about yourself. I couldn't respect you if you would accept me at anything less than a version of myself that I could be proud of and that I would deem to be worthy of you.


I am not looking for a GQ cover model. The dynamic we have; intellectually, sexually, and romantically will drive our attraction far more than the exterior package. But physical attraction will exist, it just won't be the overriding factor in our attraction to one another.


I am not a supermodel (5'4" and all) and I am not a size zero.


I am low maintenance. Minimal makeup. I haven't used a blow dryer or straightener in probably a year. I like the idea of having my fingers and toes pampered (along with the rest of me) but time is a significant barrier.


I do indulge in Chanel Coco Madmeoiselle Perfume when I can...though with so many people having scent allergies these days...I use in extreme moderation.


Tattoo's and piercings. I'm honestly indifferent. I have pierced ears and had my navel pierced though it was crooked so I let it close. I have one tattoo on the lower right of my back.

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