Dungeon Night

So, I went to my first dungeon night.

It was not what I expected...though I realize in hindsight it's because I had very unrealistic expectations.

First of all, it was SO not sexual.

I told my child the whole thing lacked intimacy but honestly, there were scenes with intimacy going on at various points of the night...but they were the exception...actually, I can think of only one that was intimate.

It was really more like an S&M get together...I'm a sadist...great, I'm a masochist...let's play.

The words were Top and Bottom...not Dom and sub.

So to capture the events of the evening.

I raced home from family game night to get ready and headed out, running just a little late. I was surprised to see my chaperone for the night...who I'd understood to be single, was actually going with a guy.

We exchanged pictures of what we'd be wearing but ironically, we arrived at the same time and I just parked next to her and her beau.

I was so glad I'd been able to talk to her ahead of time because I felt more at ease...I was dressed appropriately, I knew a bit of what to expect, and she was just SO cool and comforting.

The "munch" started after about 15 minutes and it reminded me of what I would imagine an AA meeting to be based on seeing them in movies and on TV...we sat around for an hour and talked about our play experiences, goals, fears, etc. I did not share anything during this time.

After that, there was a period where they went through and had the Top's who were going to be providing scenes and "tastings" describe what they were offering and then they went over the rules of the house.

I will say, I appreciate the inclusiveness, the "everyone welcome" vibe of the place. MOST of the women were not petite by any means and it was clear out of the gate, that was a problem for no one. It was also interesting that the Top's, even if straight sexually, were more than willing to Top the same sex...hence my comment that it was very non-sexual.

So after the tasting menu presentation and rules, everyone broke. It was fascinating because most people lingered upstairs for quite a while and I learned that my chaperone was actually not doing a scene with her partner but with one of the other Tops.

He had stood out to me as he just had that vibe of a true, through and through, Top/Dom type...he wouldn't be someone prone to switching. I wanted to watch her scene.

They met up as soon as the munch broke and he told her she was up first but that they'd be playing upstairs so she went to change and he set about setting up. She was more than comfortable with me watching and was glad to have someone to video for her.

I'd identified as a newbie so there was a curious vibe around me but they were all so "professional"...it was a little weird.

I did help him set up his table and once she got on it, I held his flogger while he positioned the table where he wanted it...but mostly I just watched and videoed for her.

It was fascinating in how giggly she was...I'll admit, I've giggled before...but as I watched how intense the impacts were, I was shocked that she could just continue giggling through it.

He started off with two different floggers and confirmed what I already knew...I'd never been properly flogged.

Then he went on to these balls that reminded me of drum sticks...they were so intense and I caught him catching my shocked look when he did a particular maneuver with them where he had one pressed to her ass and struck the handle of it HARD with the other stick. He then "finished" with this metal paw print which was just brutal.

As I was watching it, I was intrigued but it struck me how impersonal it was.

But despite that, I decided I wanted to try and asked for a tasting...which of course he agreed to but I'd have to wait...I was 5th in line.

So we went downstairs to watch.

It was fascinating.

There were so many things going on...none of them honestly, interested me much. Someone was being tickled (I hate being tickled), they were doing fire cupping and fleshing...I'm NOT about flame! There was a couple doing what appeared to be infantilism but it was hard to tell as they were in their own bubble and not interacting with the observers. There was a lot of electricity play...which stuck me as more intense that I'd be into. Then there was of course a lot of impact play going on. Then there was also a "primal" scene...which honestly looked more like erotic dance to me than anything...I was honestly quite confused.

We watched and visited for about an hour and then went up to see how things were progressing with the Top who was going to do my tasting.

He was doing an electricity session with a gal and it was INTENSE! He brought her to tears.

They hadn't been into it too long so we ended up watching probably 20 minutes of them and then it was my turn.

It was so weird because I'd never engaged in something promising to be so intense in such a casual way.

We went over the implements and what I like...the dull thuddy more than the stingy. We went over what I'd done in the past and how important build up was. I warned him I could cry but that didn't matter...if I needed him to stop I'd code...but I don't like to code.

Then we tried to figure out position...I ended up on the table sort of kneeling...with my top, stockings, and heels on but no skirt (my panties broke when I tried showing them to someone).

I'll be honest, it felt amazing at first but damn it got intense. I wasn't able to get to subspace but I did get turned on, though no outlet for that other than my vibrator, which I'll use after I finish writing this.

I was grateful to my chaperone and her date for taking video!

I hope that RV appreciates what was captured and understands it for what it is. It was disappointingly non-sexual but as a submissive, that type of intense impact play is something that...at times...is nice.