These are a few of my favorite things...

Yes, I was hearing The Sound of Music in my head when I wrote that.

...blindfolds

...Ayn Rand

...choking

...feeling your influence, in many ways and places

...old cars

...spanking

...hiking

...double penetration

...flowers for no particular reason

...giving head

...surprising you...in many, many ways

...cooking

...discreetly (low risk) playing in public

...big family gatherings

...swinging

...traveling (Delta only!)

...bondage (especially hands/breasts)

...writing

...making out...if the list were in order, this would be up there higher

...old houses

...the book The Night Circus

...high heels

...confidence...also higher on the list if it were in order

...dancing

...Salted Carmel Oat Milk bars

I have been on kinky sites and they are hyper focused on sex.

You go on a mainstream dating site and sex and fetishes are to offensive to discuss.

I believe in balance. I'm not all one way or the other.

I'm sure when you go golfing or fishing with your friends, it's not with a penis club (they make those if you need a gag gift for someone) or a condom lure.

I believe you are more than one thing and I will love all of the parts...the kinky and boring, the annoying and the adorable.