Swinging or whatever you want to call it...

I have found this to be one of the things that is often viewed as mutually exclusive to a D/s relationship. I suspect many will bail after this post.

"D/s relationships must be exclusive." "You can't swing and be in a D/s relationship."

I am not going to try and change your mind but I don't ascribe to those beliefs.

I think there are ways other partners can heighten a D/s relationship and they allow confidence to be put on display in an intoxicating manner.

We may have sex with other people, together or apart, but we choose each other for everything else that matters beyond the experience of the pleasure we get from sex.

Sex is so pleasurable, why would we limit one another in maximizing that?