Sharing You

My impulse to share you is rooted in something different than your impulse to share me I believe.

Of course there is the obvious, I want to please you and if you find another woman attractive and want to indulge in her physically, I don't want to be a barrier to that. I like the idea of being able to watch you from afar experiencing that pleasure and watching someone else respond to the things you are capable of.

I want you to know I trust you, and that I understand our relationship is built on so much more than the physical pleasures we bring to one another. I want you to know that I understand and have enough confidence in myself to believe in my ability to give you things no other woman can ever give you and that THOSE aspects are what matter most.

I believe there is a complacency that occurs in relationships over time. There is a comfortable security that forms, you get intertwined domestically and financially, and you start to feel that for either of you...leaving would be more of an inconvenience than anything...so women tend to feel comfortable cutting back on sex, letting themselves go physically...which leads men to pay them less attention and often seek sex outside the relationship.

I don't want us to create an environment where we become complacent with one another. I don't want you to have to seek sexual pleasure outside of our relationship because of something I once provided that I begin withholding...if you have a foot fetish and you want to get that outside of the relationship...great. Maybe you're not bi and occasionally we'd engage two other men for that type of play to satisfy that itch in me that isn't your cup of tea...who knows...but that is different in my mind.

But however it occurs, I want those external interactions to be undertaken honestly and openly and with the right intentions.

I guess my asks would be that you not Dominate anyone else but me...rough sex, ass spanking being different than full on Dominating of course. And that you not indulge in anyone/anything regularly enough that emotions become involved. If we could find another strong couple that we could swap with, maybe that would be different but I just wouldn't want to risk that confusion...and after enough time, I don't know as it could be avoided.

I do get turned on by the idea of you being inside of me after being inside someone else, and of tasting another woman on your lips.