Sadism and Masochism

I am not a masochist.

I have dated a sadist before. It is what helped me understand the difference between a sadist and a Dominant.

Submitting to pain, enduring pain, FOR you...because my endurance of it pleases you is the dynamic we cultivate.

You don't get off on hurting me. You'd never hit me or harm me in any way out of anger. You enjoy and get off on the fact that I will subject myself to it for you because my endurance of it pleases you.

If I got off on the pain, it wouldn't mean as much to you as it does when I endure it for your pleasure...not for my own.

Though I experience great pleasure in enduring it for you and knowing how much THAT pleases you...not the actual infliction of the pain itself.

With proper trust, devotion, and build-up, I can endure a great deal.