In Real Life

I have been in a D/s relationship that tried too hard.

He was Dominant, I was submissive and everything we did revolved around that...overtly.

I envision a D/s relationship that is "always on" because it is fundamental to who we are, not because that is ALL we are. I see a relationship that still includes interacting with family, non-D/s friends, traveling, attending events, and doing "normal" things just like everyone else.

While there is fun in some of the discrete ways to play in public, it is not essential because my orientation to you will always be submissive in nature.

My family knows of my orientation. Some are more accepting, understanding, and supportive than others. Ultimately they just want me to be happy.

By default, once we find one another, they will know your orientation as well. But the acceptance, understanding, and support I experience will be extended to you as well.