I believe being a "Sugar Mamma" and being a submissive are mutually exclusive

Being submissive doesn't mean being taken advantage of. Been there, done that.

I can not give myself over to someone who is inferior to me. You would feel like a fraud if that we're the case. Our dynamic can't work if you were to rely on me financially.

I know you find such a thing ludicrous but believe me, there are people who believe that is just another way of being submissive. It is not the way for me. I know it is not the way for you either.

You have at least one car, as do I.

You are capable of living independently, as am I.

You are not over-extended and living paycheck to paycheck, as am I similarly not over-extended.

You will not take advantage of me financially, as I will not take advantage of you.