Hard Limits

I often think this list is easier. I am fairly open to a lot of things and believe that most things that I haven't tried that I'm willing to try, I should try at least twice if I didn't like it the first time because sometimes that first time is a fluke.

So hard limits...things that I would never consider...

underage

non-human with a pulse

human or non-human formerly with a pulse but currently without a pulse

needles (tattoos are a separate topic)

high voltage

scat

gun play

add: anything to do with snot or spit or phlegm.

There is another category of things that I would say are almost hard limits but I could envision...for you and only you...if you really wanted me to do certain things...I could see myself getting to a place where I would be willing to endure them for you...but it would take time and trust at a level I have never experienced and can barely comprehend...

knives/scarification/branding

These have gone off and on my hard limit list. But I realize the hard limit is driven by two things. The pain factor - particularly as it relates to branding and then the "for life" factor.

But then I think about you...and just you and what you are, who you are to me, what I am to you...and I could see enduring that for you because there will come a point of recognition, trust, and acceptance when I'll see you are the one I've been writing to and thinking about, and "for life" will be a given.

There are probably other things I'm not thinking of at the moment, I'll adjust this as those things come to mind.