Giving Head

It's one of those things I just truly love doing.

I did a lot of it in high school and my twenties. I feel like I'm pretty darn good at it and I do believe enjoying it is a big part.

This is the only area where sometimes I feel a bit less submissive and a bit more controlling as I do enjoy the power I have over the pleasure of someone else but in the end, my ultimate motivation is to please whomever I'm attending to so I'd never torment someone and tease them with head...unless it was intended as merely a warm-up for other things.

In high school I was so embarrassed about doing it that I would only do it while he (Mike) was driving. It ended up leaving me with this odd turn-on by seeing a man in command behind the wheel of a car...though there is a certain posture to it that does it for me. There is this sort of casual, confidence that is relaxed yet clearly in control...it's as if the car wouldn't dare deviate under your power. Though we never did it in a stick shift, I know he would have had me swooning if we ever had. One of my fun cars is a stick.

I think the control aspects of the act are what turn me on about you engaging in it as well. There is so much power you wield in the giving but also over someone else delivering it. Early in my sexual development, it seemed a very submissive act in a male that I didn't believe would be arousing but once I experienced it, I found it very much the opposite.

While bi-sexual tendencies in my partner is certainly not something I need to be satisfied in a relationship, it is something I greatly enjoy.